I didnt lightly jump to the conclusion that my dad is a sociopath. this is one of many events including being told things like “I own you”. a lot of cluster b disorders have overlap so not being a doc I wont say I know this for sure but of the thousands of people Ive met ive eventually asked 3 if they knew what bpd was. (suspecting they are but its an awkward thing to directly ask) ive been right 3/3 times. that doesn’t make me perfect or at the level of someone with a phd in either drug pushing or psychiatry…er i mean psychologist…. but when I study something I have an interest in (psych always has been) I tend to absorb it pretty well.
Bonnie‘s ashes were sent from the vet in US mail Addressed to me. like 14 months ago I got a picture of the open package. this happened far later. To this day her ashes are one of several things I still cant touch.